Saturday, November 2, 2013

Transitions in Marriage

This week in my family relations class we talked about transitions in marriage. We talked about important factors that keep a marriage strong such as communication, intimacy, and trust.We also talked about how planning a wedding can prepare couples for marriage. When planning a wedding couples need to communicate with each other, their parents, and their future in-laws, which is also very important in a marriage. Couples also usually figure out finances together for the wedding, which is also important in a marriage. Another thing we talked about was what usually happens with marital satisfaction when a child is born. For many couples marital satisfaction decreases when a child is born, because stress goes up, the parents tend to be more tired, and sometimes the husband feels neglected by his wife. Couples can usually prevent a decrease in martial satisfaction when a child is born, if they are aware of these factors and go out of their way to communicate and make sure each other are still getting their needs met.

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  1. You discussed the importance of communicating throughout the marriage preparation process, why is communication so key? Can you give me some statistics concerning the importance of communication in the dating and marriage process? How can we encourage continual satisfaction even during various stages in couples lives? I love the thought that President James E. Faust gave speaking of ways to enrich marriages,"We build our marriages with endless friendship, confidence, integrity, and by administering and sustaining each other in our difficulties." I believe that in taking President Faust's counsel to heart and truly seeking to "cleave" unto our spouse as discussed in Genesis 2:24, we are on our way to encourage an enduring marriage. What are some ways that you can put your future spouse before other areas in your life?

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